Each culture has different rules for its funeral
services. For the Jewish, these rules concern things from Jewish
caskets to a lack of floral arrangements.
Those who have never been to a Jewish funeral may be surprised
to find that there are a few things that go on there that are
different from other funerals they may have attended.
For example, while it is customary to have a viewing after
the death of many people, the same does not hold true for Jews.
That is because the caskets that hold the deceased are actually
coffins and they are not to be opened.
Almost always those who are Jewish are buried and not cremated
since Orthodox law does not allow for cremation.
Although it is customary to send flowers after someone dies
in many places, the same is not true for Jews. Because these
ceremonies are floral-free, those who wish to express their
sympathy are instead encouraged to make a donation to a favorite
cause of the deceased.
Before you attend a Jewish funeral, you should make sure to
brush up on the traditions concerning Jewish caskets and other
items in order to keep the focus on the deceased and not draw
attention to yourself.